Our Therapists

Therapist Nat Roman

Nat Roman is a Registered Psychotherapist and a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist with a Master of Science in Couple and Family Therapy and a BA in Psychology. He has training in individual, couple, and family therapy, and specializes in an integrative approach that draws on effective therapy practices from multiple models tailored to the needs of each client. In addition to his academic and clinical background, Nat has in-depth training in Nonviolent Communication (NVC), restorative conflict circles, mindfulness meditation practices and Buddhist psychology.

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Nat was first introduced to both therapy and meditation practice thirty years ago within the context of his own healing and self-discovery journey and since that time has studied, practiced and taught mindfulness based practices in Canada and the US. Nat has taught and mentored others within the context of traditional Buddhist retreats, workshops on mindfulness and compassionate communication practices, and individual, couple and family therapy sessions.

Nat has also explored these above themes in his academic work having conducted experimental psychological research on the effects of mindfulness and emotional awareness in reducing aggressive responses to goal threats as well as exploring how somatic awareness and embodied mindfulness practices can be integrated into couple and family therapy.

Nat's clinical interests include understanding the role of attachment processes and trauma in interpersonal development; language and systems of meaning; and strategies for challenging internalized social and cultural messages that get in the way of experiencing the freedom, connection and safety that we all long for as human beings.

Nat has training in a wide range of therapeutic models and techniques, including social constructionist approaches to individual, couple and family therapy (Dialogic, Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Narrative Therapy) and as Cognitive Behavioural (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioural (DBT) therapies. Although these models continue to inform elements of Nat's therapeutic work, he primarily works from a Process-experiential and Mindfulness-based approach, drawing on Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) to help clients be more in tune with their moment-by-moment experience, learn more about the inner world, and be able to self-soothe and be emotinally present to others.

In an earlier stage of life Nat worked as a professional musician and strongly believes that creativity is an essential part of life, whether one is engaged in a formal creative discipline, problem solving, or attempting to get kids off to school in the morning.


Therapist Van Vu

Van Vu is a Registered Social Worker with a Master in Social Work (MSW) and a BA in Psychology. Van has certifications in trauma and addiction treatment and is a member of the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy. In addition to providing individual, couple and family therapy, Van supervises other clinicians and has been designing and delivering counselling curriculum at McMaster University and other post-secondary institutions for over a decade.

Known for her warmth and ability to connect with clients, Van supports couples by providing them with tools to improve communication, change negative interaction patterns, repair past hurts, and revitalize emotional and physical intimacy.

*Van offers therapy services in English & Vietnamese

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Van offers a flexible therapeutic approach that is client-centred and collaborative. She takes a compassionate and thoughtful approach to ensure that she understands your concerns and your hopes for therapy. Van’s therapeutic style is well-paced, warm, and caring. She uses a dynamic combination of evidence-based treatment approaches and incorporates practical and experiential treatment activities to support positive treatment outcomes.

Van’s practice interests also include the treatment of emotional disorders, trauma and addiction, grief and loss, and supporting families experiencing high conflict separation/divorce.

Van has completed training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Somatic Interventions, Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy, Solution Focused and Narrative Therapy, Family Systems Therapy and IFS informed, and Sex Therapy.


Aiwen Xu is a Registered Psychotherapist with a Master of Divinity (MDiv) in Clinical Counselling. Aiwen is also a member of the Canadian Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and a trained family mediator according to the standards of the Ontario Association for Family Mediation. She has experience working with both individuals and couples, and tends towards an integrative approach that draws from a variety of therapeutic frameworks in order to best address the issues that clients bring into therapy.

*Aiwen offers in-person therapy in both English and Mandarin.

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Aiwen is a former lawyer who practiced law for a number of years before recognizing and accepting her passion for helping and supporting clients in a deeper and more meaningful way through psychotherapy. She believes that our sense of fulfillment and purpose, and our ability to respond to life’s circumstances depend on our understanding and acceptance of ourselves, healthy and deep connections with others, and, if desired, a faith in something greater.

To that end, Aiwen utilizes EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy; IFS - Internal Family Systems; CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy; Attachment Theory; Family Systems Theory; and ACT - Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Her hope is to bring new understanding, compassion and awareness to individuals and couples as they examine long-standing behavioural and interactional patterns that no longer serve them.

Overall, Aiwen works from a systems perspective. She seeks to understand her clients within their unique context. This means she takes into consideration not just a client’s personality traits, but also the family in which he or she was raised, the culture in which he or she grew up, any faith/spirituality, as well as major life experiences, and any other contributing factors. In all of her work, she endeavours to be trauma-informed and non-pathologizing, and to approach with compassion and curiosity.


Therapist Shawn van Sligtenhorst

Shawn van Sligtenhorst is a Registered Social Worker with a Master of Social Worker (MSW) with post-graduate training in individual, couple and family therapy and a BA in Psychology and Anthropology.

With a strong foundation in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Solution Focused Therapy - Shawn lets the client-therapist conversation direct the approach that he takes. With these models as his foundation, Shawn continues to expand his knowledge and training to incorporate new research and clinical insights.

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Relationship counselling approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy and John Gottman's work have given therapists "a new language" to use with clients and an understanding of the "mechanics" of communication. Part of Shawn's approach in relational work is to help clients identify the verbal and non-verbal cues that they engage in and how these connect to deeper emotional experiences, needs and desires. With a greater understanding of these emotional expressions, couples and families can start to understand their own unique "dance" of communication, and the areas that need to be tweaked and improved for greater relationship satisfaction.

Prior to dedicating himself to clinical practice Shawn served the community in a variety of roles, including administering anonymous HIV testing, crisis intervention & severe mental illness support, as well as outreach services at a Drop-in Centre for Street Youth.


Therapist Larry Lander

Larry Lander is a Registered Social Worker with Master and Bachelor degrees in Clinical Social Work. He also holds a Master of Divinity with a special concentration in Family counselling and a BA in philosophy. For over thirty years he has been counselling individuals, couples and families, whether as a congregational clergy, or as a clinician in private therapy practices, hospitals, prisons, and nursing homes. In times of sickness, loss, emotional pain and relationship stress he has brought families hope and meaning with his warmth, compassion and insight.

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At the heart of all Larry’s work is a client-centered approach which emphasizes respect, authenticity and acceptance. Larry is passionate about helping families and couples and works mindfully to help them transform their lives together. He supports individual clients in enhancing self-esteem, healing through loss, and finding solutions to life’s heavy problems.

Larry uses a variety of current therapeutic models. With couples, Larry draws on the Gottman Relationship Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. With individuals Larry utilizes Schema, Acceptance-Commitment, Solution Focused, Narrative and Logo therapists.

Most importantly, Larry’s work is informed by his own personal life challenges, including separation and divorce, blended family life, aging parents, loss through death, parenting teenagers, and career change. Larry welcomes people of all faiths, world views and backgrounds, ages and sexual orientations. When Larry is not counselling he is riding his bike, running a half marathon, reading at Aroma or visiting his nine grandchildren.


Therapist Kira Hurley

Kira Hurley is a Registered Psychotherapist, a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist with the Canadian Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, a Clinical Fellow with the American/Ontario Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and a member of the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association. Kira works collaboratively with individuals, couples, and families from a systemic perspective to enhance understanding, communication patterns, and improve relationship dynamics utilizing strength based approaches with an emphasis on insight-development and empowerment.

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Kira has extensive experience counselling couples dealing with marital or family issues and children facing challenges with life transitions, and mental or behavioural complexities. Kira also provides sports therapy for individuals experiencing performance issues due to challenges with personal or family life circumstances. Kira has a passion for helping clients reach their full potential, happiness and wellbeing.


Therapist Krishna Makhania

Krishna Makhania is a Registered Psychotherapist with a Master of Science in Couple and Family Therapy and a Master of Arts in Psychology. She takes a compassionate, curious, and collaborative stance when working with traditional and non-traditional couples. She works systemically to help her clients gain insight into patterns, begin the process of interrupting defensive structures within a safe space, tolerate difficult emotions that arise, and develop courage to express oneself authentically and positively to significant others. Her therapeutic style is a blend of insight development and practical tools to support both the mind and body, such that harmony within and with others can be attained.

*Krishna offers therapy services in English, Hindi and Gujarati

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Krishna uses an integrative approach in therapy depending on client needs, context and comfort. This means that she draws from various proven therapy techniques such as emotion focused therapy, solution focused therapy, narrative therapy, strategic therapy, Bowen’s intergenerational model, structural model and more.

Krishna is trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, queer affirmative, and culturally sensitive. She recognises the significance of cultural context and life experiences in shaping ideas, identities, personalities, and perspectives of individuals. She strives to practice with humility when working with people from diverse backgrounds, including but not limited to diversity based on culture, race, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, relationship format, ability, past experiences of trauma, mental/physical health etc. She highlights strengths within individuals; the courage, resistance, and resilience people show against dominant discourses and oppressive systems.

Some of the common issues that Krishna has worked with include parenting stress, couple conflicts (such as issues of power and control, intimacy, communication, infidelity, life transitions), supporting couples with trauma experiences, mental/physical health challenges, addictions etc.


Therapist Renee Sandler

Renee Sandler is a Registered Psychotherapist and a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist, with a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology and over 20 years in the field. She has extensive experience providing support to couples who are experiencing difficulties in their parenting, along with providing psychotherapy to children, teenagers and families. 

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Renee completed her studies and training in Los Angeles, California, where she worked extensively with marginalized youth in inner-city schools, along with maintaining a private practice, where she worked with individuals, couples and families.

Renee draws primarily on psychodynamic, interpersonal, relational, Emotion-Focused (EFT) and Internal Family Systems (IFS) models of psychotherapy. She has worked for many years with clients who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, loss, substance-abuse, eating disorders and self-harm.

Prior to becoming a therapist, Renee worked for many years with young children in a democratic learning environment that focused on healthy emotional and social development. Through this experience, she learned meaningful and authentic ways to support children in finding safe outlets for their big feelings and develop strong problem-solving skills that included helping them set their own boundaries and be respectful of others’ boundaries. She regularly incorporates and adapts this approach into her work with clients of all ages.


Therapist Ben Gibson

Benjamin Gibson is a Registered Psychotherapist with a Master of Science in Couple and Family Therapy and a BA in Psychology. He has significant experience working with individuals, couples and families, and takes pride in his ability to connect in a genuine way with a variety of clients, tailoring his approach in a way that best honours each client’s unique preferences, values, strengths and goals.

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Benjamin is trained in and comfortable working from a variety of clinical models, including Solution-Focused, Cognitive-Behavioral, Emotionally-Focused and Narrative. He takes a person-centred approach, and believes that the therapeutic relationship is built on trust, respect, compassion, acceptance, validation and understanding. In his work, he consistently demonstrates attentiveness to engaging his clients’ internal resources and their potential to create positive changes in their lives. Through insight, self-awareness and the acquisition of tools geared towards coping with life’s challenges, he believes that the therapeutic process is invaluable in nurturing and supporting healing in his clients’ lives and relationships.

Benjamin’s professional training and personal experiences allow him to offer a non-judgmental environment, sensitive and intuitive insight, and solid therapeutic skills that help clients to move forward in their lives.

Benjamin understands that some of the issues clients bring to therapy may be private, difficult to talk about, embarrassing, or painful. He has worked with people on many difficult issues and aims to provide a safe space for clients to talk about their concerns.

Benjamin can help you:

  • Find solutions for family, couple & workplace conflicts
  • Improve communication at home
  • Manage stress, anxiety, anger and moods
  • Cope with grief and loss
  • Resolve trauma and past hurts
  • Increase confidence and self-esteem
  • Find sexual intimacy
  • Be the parent and family member you prefer to be

Therapist Yasmin A. Razek

Yasmin A. Razek is a Registered Psychotherapist, a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist, and a Certified EFT Therapist with a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a BA in Psychology. Yasmin is passionate about assisting individuals, couples, and families overcome their struggles by working with their unique strengths. Yasmin is trained in multiple therapeutic models, including Behavioural, Emotionally-Focused, and Solution-Focused, and uses an integrative approach, with a predominantly systemic focus, to provide insight and guide clients to produce their desired change. 

*Yasmin offers therapy services in English and Arabic.

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Yasmin began her career working with individuals in private practices and psychiatric facilities in the Middle East and continued her education and clinical training in Canada and the US. Her breadth of experience both clinically and culturally allows her to effectively work with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds.

Yasmin works gently and compassionately and uses clinically tested and evidence-based interventions to enhance relationships and overcome personal obstacles. Yasmin can help clients impacted by depression, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, relationship conflict, trauma, and infidelity.

Yasmin will work with you to:

  • Develop coping strategies for hardships and loss;
  • Improve overall well-being;
  • Become “unstuck” from a cycle of disconnection;
  • Understand and respond to your partner’s cues;
  • Increase emotional connection and enhance intimacy;
  • Find solutions for conflict

Yasmin’s greatest reward as a therapist is helping her clients explore ways to make positive changes in their lives that will empower them and instill hope for the future.


Intake Coordinator Kristen Hoosen

Kristen Hoosen is our Client Intake Coordinator and she is the person you’ll be speaking with when you reach out to our clinic. 

She has a Master of Education degree from York University, where her focus on the relationship between learning and technology was explored in her research on composition practices in online writing communities. Kristen’s professional background in education, editing, and research complements her strong interest in the field of mental health. As our intake coordinator, Kristen hopes to create a warm and welcoming environment where she can help individuals, couples, and families find the support they need. She understands that the therapy process can seem overwhelming at first and is happy to answer any questions you have about the therapy process, our therapists, and our services. 



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