Larry Lander

Registered Social Worker


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Session Types: Online

Clients:

  • Individuals (Adults & Teens 15+)

  • Couples & Families

Specialities:

  • Gottman Relationship Method

  • Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Narrative Therapy

  • ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy)

More About Larry

Larry has worked for over thirty years counselling individuals, couples and families, whether as a congregational clergy, or as a clinician in private therapy practices, hospitals, prisons, and nursing homes. In times of sickness, loss, emotional pain and relationship stress he has brought families hope and meaning with his warmth, compassion and insight.

At the heart of all Larry’s work is a client-centered approach which emphasizes respect, authenticity and acceptance. Larry is passionate about helping families and couples and works mindfully to help them transform their lives together. He supports individual clients in enhancing self-esteem, healing through loss, and finding solutions to life’s heavy problems.

Larry uses a variety of current therapeutic models. With couples, Larry draws on the Gottman Relationship Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. With individuals Larry utilizes Schema, Acceptance-Commitment, Solution Focused, Narrative and Logotherapy.

Most importantly, Larry’s work is informed by his own personal life challenges, including separation and divorce, blended family life, aging parents, loss through death, parenting teenagers, and career change. Larry welcomes people of all faiths, world views and backgrounds, ages and sexual orientations. When Larry is not counselling he is riding his bike, running a half marathon, reading at Aroma or visiting his nine grandchildren.

Education

• Bachelor of Social Work (BSW)

• Master of Social Work (MSW)

• Master of Divinity (MDiv) with concentration in family counselling

• BA of Philosophy

Relevant Facts

• Worked for thirty years as a congregational clergy

Irrelevant Facts

• I like to stay active (and keep up with my nine grandkids!). I enjoy spin biking, lifting weights, and occasionally running a half marathon.

• One of my favourite ways to unwind is with a good book and a coffee at Aroma. That, or a game of pickleball if I’m feeling competitive.

Q&A

  • From a young age I was interested in social justice issues and understanding the systemic factors that shape us. For over 30 years, I was a clergy person—people came to me during some of the hardest moments of their lives. I sat with families in crisis, couples in conflict, individuals facing loss, doubt, or major life transitions.

    Eventually, I made the decision to focus fully on that part of the work. Becoming a therapist felt like a natural next step. It allowed me to bring all those years of experience into a new role, while deepening my training and understanding of how to support people through change. I’ve also been in the client chair myself, so I know how powerful it can be to have someone walk alongside you when life feels heavy. That’s what I try to offer now—steadiness, honesty, and a genuine belief that healing and growth are always possible.

  • Relationships are one of the most important—and most challenging—parts of our lives. I’ve seen firsthand how much pain can come from disconnection, and also how powerful it can be when two people start to really understand and respond to each other differently.

    Over the years, I’ve worked with countless couples who felt stuck, unheard, or on the brink of giving up. Helping them find a way back to each other—or forward in a healthier direction—is some of the most meaningful work I do.

Areas of Focus

  • Blended Families

  • Breakups / Heartbreak

  • Caregiver Stress

  • Co-Parenting

  • Communication Skills

  • Divorce / Separation

  • Empty Nest Syndrome

  • Existential Concerns

  • Family Conflict

  • Grief and Loss

  • Identity & Values Clarification

  • Infidelity / Trust Issues

  • Intercultural Relationships

  • Midlife Crisis

  • Parent-Child Relationship

  • Parenting Challenges

  • Pornography Addiction

  • Relationship Conflict

  • Religious Trauma

  • Self-Esteem / Confidence

  • Sexual Issues / Intimacy

  • Sibling Issues

  • Spirituality & Faith Struggles

  • Retirement Adjustment

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